You see him, you want him, but you have to get him. Attracting a man can be a piece of cake if you consider the simple five steps we are about to disclose.
Psychologists say that linking a person is not entirely based on subjective perception. There are five major factors that influence the attractiveness to a person:
- Physical attractiveness
- Similarity
- Compliments
- Contact and Cooperation
- Conditioning and Association
All you have to do is enhance the factors above and you will successfully attract men. But let`s take them one by one and explain how they work.
- Physical attractiveness
No matter what you were told, physical appearance is very important since it`s the first thing you notice when you see someone. Social psychology studies reveal that good looking people are subconsciously associated with positive characteristics. This way, attractive people are seen as smarter and more honest than less attractive ones.
Consequently, if you want to attract a guy, ensure you look great. Dress well, get a professional hair style and a catchy make up. The important thing is to make sure you highlight your physical advantages. Choose a dress that matches your body type and skin tone. Wear neutral colored clothes in case you want to draw eyes to your face rather than to your body.
- Similarity
Studies show we like people who are similar to us, so finding common ground is essential if you want to attract a man. The similarity may come from hobbies, movies, tastes, opinions, culture or personality features.
In the moment you find common ground, your man`s comfort level increases and he instantly likes you more. But how do you know which is the common ground? It`s simple. Do some research on him. You can go online to find information about him, since almost everybody is present on the Internet nowadays. In case you have mutual friends, ask them about him. Still, keep in mind men don`t like stalkers, so make sure your research is extremely discrete and he cannot find out about it.
After you know his area of interests, select the ones that can lead to future dates. For example, if he likes psychological movies, watch a famous one and they mention how much it fascinated you and you are planning to see more psychological movies. This can lead to watching the next one together.
Be careful not to be very direct with these similarities because he might feel you desperately want his attention. The secret is to act naturally in creating this “lucky coincidences”.
- Compliments
Everybody likes to be flattered, whether the compliments are true or false. When you want to attract a man, compliment him, but keep it not too obvious. If you flatter him too much, you look too needy and desperate to catch his attention and he will step back.
- Contact and Cooperation
We feel comfortable and like familiar things. The more time you spend being exposed to something, the more you develop an affinity for it. This explains why people fall in love with their mates from school or office.
Many people spend the majority of time with their office friends and they end up thinking they have more in common with these co-workers than with their wife, husband or friends outside the office. This is one of the reasons people cheat.
In order to attract a man, make him familiar with you in a casual and cooperative setting, where social pressures are less present. A good option is taking group classes together. Be interested in his hobbies and ask him to teach you one of them. This way you will spend more time together in a friendly and familiar environment. Make sure you choose a non-competitive activity because high-stress and competition leads to animosity.
- Conditioning and Association
In attracting a man you have to associate yourself with activities, environments, and people that he perceives positively. For example, if he likes bowling, go with him to the alley he uses to play. In case you have no idea about this game, take some classes in advance and you can surprise him with your bowling abilities. Useful advice: don`t beat him. He will associate you with something positive and therefore be more attracted to you.
These are the five simple steps to attract a man. As you can see, you just have to do some grooming, a bit of research, and a little planning. Good luck!
